outside of it and have children that are dealing with it handle it as well? >> well, i heard what they said, and it was very poignant. they had listened to the experts such as myself giving advice. if you have children who have heard about this, how to speak with them. this is a very special population. they're the ones that are at the ground zero who have been traumatized. and i would tell those parents, and this is specifically for you there in connecticut, as part of sandy hook. the most important thing is let your children know that you, as the parents, have been very hurt by this. and that you want to cry, and it's okay to cry. and it's okay to grieve. but most important, they, as the parents, soledad, have to provide the stability of just being there with their children, hugging them, holding them, letting them know that they are safe right now, and just listening to whatever it is that those children want to say.